Have you ever wondered why some people find a partner right away and others don’t even manage to find one? Some people attribute it to bad luck, but the reality is that many of us are burdened with unconscious fears that block us and make us repeat patterns ad nauseam and always run into the same type of people.

In astrology, the position of the moon in our natal chart helps us to understand how we relate, reveals the childhood wounds we carry and how we lived our first love: that of our mother (or equivalent person), a model that we will repeat in all our relationships.

There are twelve possible lunar patterns, twelve unconscious fears that define how we relate to each other. To become aware of them, and also of the planets with which they interact, is essential to change them, if it is convenient for us, and to access good relationships, in which no one heals anyone, but both members of the couple form a team.